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Re: It's as Clear as Mud #218108 01/07/04 12:36 PM
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sage Member Joined: Dec 2002 Posts: 4,885	Quote: It's just curious to me...tell me ladies were there no opportunities for you all to potentially "slip up" as our H's did? My job site consists of 85% men and my school classes are about 75%...there's plenty of men around me! I suppose I could attract 1 or 2 given enough time and inclination . This may be "black and white" thinking on my part but I just feel as though I'm "wired" against infidelity ...it was a major part of my parents marital demise and IN MY FACE for many, many years. I just can't see choosing that path over another...and I'm on "heightened alert" to signs of stepping over boundaries so I just don't see myself "slipping up". It would have to be a conscious decision. About 8 months ago I started working with a guy on a project that I hadn't worked with before...we had a nice ease with each other...laughed at each other's jokes, etc, when no one else seemed to get them...he emailed me a few things and one day in the course of a 5 minute conversation mentioned that he never saw his wife between her job and the kids...the red flags went way up for me and while I remained friendly I put the brakes on the 1-on-1 friendship. Maybe I wouldn't have been so alert and on guard if I hadn't been dealing with the aftermath of h's ea... Sage Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.

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It's as Clear as Mud	talitsa	12/23/03 01:44 AM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	Underdog	12/23/03 01:52 AM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	superlucia	12/23/03 02:28 AM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	shinybear	12/23/03 04:06 AM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	holdingon	12/23/03 02:29 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	Phoenix_In_Bloom	12/23/03 02:56 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	Jeannine	12/23/03 04:22 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	holdingon	12/23/03 04:26 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	imalright	12/23/03 07:16 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	talitsa	12/23/03 08:12 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	talitsa	12/24/03 12:47 AM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	RMC	12/24/03 02:36 AM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	shinybear	12/24/03 06:03 AM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	Trying24now	12/23/03 05:41 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	talitsa	12/23/03 10:52 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	sage	12/24/03 05:19 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	holdingon	12/25/03 04:53 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	psluke	12/26/03 05:53 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	talitsa	12/26/03 06:05 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	Jeannine	12/26/03 07:31 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	CoolHandLuke	12/27/03 04:03 AM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	talitsa	12/27/03 04:21 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	Jeannine	12/27/03 04:27 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	RMC	12/27/03 04:43 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	imalright	12/27/03 07:38 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	psluke	12/27/03 07:43 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	holdingon	12/27/03 10:22 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	talitsa	12/28/03 06:34 AM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	Jeannine	12/28/03 11:50 AM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	optimist	12/28/03 02:55 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	imalright	12/28/03 04:26 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	RMC	12/28/03 06:21 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	holdingon	12/28/03 06:25 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	KutieKat	12/28/03 06:26 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	RMC	12/28/03 04:25 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	shinybear	12/28/03 09:47 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	talitsa	12/29/03 03:43 AM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	talitsa	12/29/03 03:46 AM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	lenwithoutlove	12/29/03 08:17 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	lostlove	12/29/03 04:13 AM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	optimist	12/29/03 04:26 AM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	kml	12/29/03 05:30 AM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	shinybear	12/29/03 07:19 AM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	Jeannine	12/29/03 01:34 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	RMC	12/29/03 02:22 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	kml	12/29/03 04:05 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	RMC	12/29/03 04:37 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	Underdog	12/29/03 04:51 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	kml	12/29/03 04:55 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	Underdog	12/29/03 05:33 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	RMC	12/29/03 06:08 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	Underdog	12/29/03 06:16 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	RMC	12/29/03 06:41 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	talitsa	12/29/03 07:48 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	imalright	12/29/03 09:09 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	holdingon	12/29/03 10:30 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	Underdog	12/29/03 10:36 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	Zoo	12/29/03 10:54 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	talitsa	12/30/03 12:06 AM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	talitsa	12/30/03 12:37 AM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	Trying24now	12/30/03 01:09 AM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	kevinlost	12/30/03 01:30 AM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	holdingon	12/30/03 01:51 AM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	Jeannine	12/30/03 01:53 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	holdingon	12/30/03 03:15 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	imalright	12/30/03 09:02 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	shinybear	12/30/03 09:55 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	talitsa	12/31/03 03:01 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	psluke	12/31/03 03:10 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	talitsa	01/04/04 02:19 AM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	nikatnight	01/04/04 03:17 AM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	Zoo	01/05/04 02:02 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	shinybear	01/06/04 05:00 AM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	talitsa	01/06/04 07:08 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	sage	01/06/04 07:22 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	shinybear	01/07/04 04:00 AM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	sage	01/07/04 12:36 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	RMC	01/07/04 01:22 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	Zoo	01/07/04 03:38 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	talitsa	01/07/04 06:03 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	phd1126	01/09/04 05:51 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	talitsa	01/09/04 06:56 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	sage	01/09/04 08:23 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	seattlehopeful	01/09/04 08:48 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	kevinlost	01/09/04 08:56 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	talitsa	01/10/04 12:35 AM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	talitsa	01/10/04 01:05 AM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	talitsa	01/10/04 01:21 AM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	talitsa	01/10/04 01:23 AM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	kevinlost	01/10/04 03:10 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	Jeannine	01/10/04 10:04 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	talitsa	01/10/04 11:42 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	Trying24now	01/11/04 12:09 AM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	talitsa	01/12/04 02:10 AM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	Trying24now	01/12/04 02:27 AM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	RMC	01/12/04 12:06 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	sage	01/12/04 12:48 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	kevinlost	01/12/04 06:08 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	Jeannine	01/12/04 08:20 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	RMC	01/12/04 08:41 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	Zoo	01/12/04 09:25 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	talitsa	01/13/04 12:39 AM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	alaskangal	01/13/04 03:43 AM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	phd1126	01/13/04 06:30 AM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	RMC	01/13/04 04:34 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	talitsa	01/13/04 10:32 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	seattlehopeful	01/13/04 10:47 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	shinybear	01/13/04 11:41 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	seattlehopeful	01/14/04 03:00 AM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	talitsa	01/15/04 03:57 AM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	KAW	01/15/04 07:23 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	talitsa	01/15/04 07:57 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	talitsa	01/21/04 12:47 AM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	sa06	01/15/04 04:04 AM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	shinybear	01/10/04 09:45 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	Jeannine	01/06/04 07:43 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	phd1126	01/07/04 09:22 AM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	phd1126	12/30/03 09:12 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	RMC	12/29/03 05:01 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	MovinOn	12/29/03 05:25 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	Trying24now	12/29/03 05:30 PM
Re: It's as Clear as Mud	phd1126	12/28/03 05:26 AM

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