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.Our feelings are neither right nor wrong they are just feelings. To say I felt used after I loaned the money is just that, a feeling.


It's not the feeling itself I'm talking about.

It's the cause of the feeling.

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I allowed myself to be used


No. You allowed yourself to feel used.

So what I was asking is....

Why?

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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.