or you could have new healthy conversations with her as

part of the new healthy marriage?

There are tools out there for you and her. If the time comes...and ps

I just want to see her face when she learns of the bike. Like if she sees a pic of you on it.

You have nothing to worry about there. It's your cheap FUN method of alternative transportation. Why on earth would she have any right to decide a thing on that?

You didn't ask to give d a ride did you? Okay then...sheesh, you were conditioned!

I think you shoudl Go take a spin on that thing...

Oh, and don't think your flashbacks equate to no growth or that you are bound to old behaviors. You are a free man with free will.

But nor do all of your perceptions of her old behaviors mean she hasn't changed at all.

She is not done. Not done growing, evolving, or being married to you.

Remember how you became a man only a fool would leave?

Well, Maybe she's not a fool.

just my .02 buddy.


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change