I can easily relate to your statements about how you felt prior to the bomb.

My H was acting a lot like Wolfie back then.

And me? Well, I was angry, resentful and thinking ..."Hey, if you can't do better than this, then leave".

Undoubtedly, my thinking was tainting my attitude and that added weight to the downward spiral.

And yes, I agree that our spouses deserve credit for their share of the work.


Jeannine