Hi Pickle,

You posted on my thread a while ago and mentioned that you are living with your ex, is that true? I started a thread in "Surviving the Big D" called "Living with you Ex" (I don't know how to put a link in here. I thought it might be helpful for someone who is actually going through this to post their thoughts in there.

For my own benefit, I am going to go through all of your threads in the next couple days. As an effort to get endless and constant DB opportunities, I suggested to my H that we live together if he pursues D and he agreed that would be best for the kinds and financially.

Hope you are doing well, I will read your thread and talk to you more probably.


Me: 32/ H: 32/ S13/ D5
T: 15/ M: 8
Rock bottom: 4/11
ILYB: 5/11, but I knew it at least a yr before
Gaining acceptance: 8/11

You must be the change you wish to see. - Mahatma Gandhi