All I can suggest is to do what I did. Show up, look beautiful, and sit calmly with your hands in your lap. Let you L do the talking. This is why he makes the big bucks. Any anger, crying, wringing of hands and tearing of hair is just an effort to sway you. DON'T BUY INTO IT.
My financial meeting was a complete waste of time. Husband was tee'd off when he walked into the room, and his L is a rock with lips. Just let your mind abstract and go to your happy place while they hammer it out.
