Go dark. Take time to process and think without dwelling yourself into a depression.
You both have been struggling uphill against her health problems, family pressure, family drama, family deaths, distance, job changes, etc.
It has not been an easy path for either of you. You have remained committed and hopeful but now it's time to pull back and put more energy into yourself.
She filed. It looks like she is going through with it this time. Prepare for the worst, but hope for the best.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2