Did you ask how he refers to you in conversation when he asked that question? Did you ask how he would prefer you refer to him?

He brought the question up because he's been thinking about it. Because he either was curious or concerned. His feelings were showing there.

Those moments when he does decide to open up can be built upon.

Time to start breaking down the walls!

Definitely get Passionate Marriage and read it. I need to reread it. It's thoroughly awesome.

Michelle - Proud DR Rockette
S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09
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