TG, I do not have a good frame of reference for posting to you. Your sitch and my experience are different.

It is possible this will be a wake up for him. He may have been denying the seriousness of your resolve all this time. I know that seems impossible, but people have deluded themselves over less. How prepared are you if that is the case?

Please consider it coolly. To me counting down indicates you are anticipating a reaction.


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Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55
D 30
S 27

You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill