given the givens, I have to say if I could "wish" any set up for a WAS that I could
THIS set up is what I'd design!...it is so batchit crazy I'd find it ideal.
Sweet "MIL" with a serious health care problem and a partying OM (who will be conveniently NOT available to care for his own mom much...unless he finds a job!!)
and an autistic son who doesn't and isn't adjusting well...in a small 2 bedroom apartment...
(sounds ideal for the LBSer)
As I said, not to make light of your pain, but as someone else here said, they have to hit bottom and she's on the express elevator down.
OM and her new life is going to sorely disappoint her. I know her own life with you and SS was tough. I get that. But her life is SO NOT going to improve with THIS...Be ready for the call from her in a few months...she will hit bottom.
Hang in there my friend.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
