Ok, I am not D'd but my husband is pushing harder and harder in that direction. I made a suggestion to him out of despiration that just may work - I suggested that after D, if that is the route he chooses, we continue to live together because neither of us is willing to give up time with the kids.
He was surprisingly agreeable to the idea. As I see it, this senario gives me unlimited, constant chances to DB.
I know, however, there are a lot of things to consider. I would like to hear some of your thougts on the matter.
If you are currently living with an Ex, tell us what works and what doesn't. I want to know the good, bad, and ugly. If you are alos using co-habitation as a DB strategy, tell me more.
For everyone esle interested or concerned, please post your cemments.
Me: 32/ H: 32/ S13/ D5 T: 15/ M: 8 Rock bottom: 4/11 ILYB: 5/11, but I knew it at least a yr before Gaining acceptance: 8/11
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