Anyhow, I know I'm backsliding a bit. I'm trying to find a balance between letting W 'chase' me, letting her know I'm 'safe' to talk to, keeping the road home smooth and paved and making sure that I take care of myself first. In many ways, it was easier when I went dark on her.
LP - I completely, completely understand this. I have been living it since April.
Listen... my advice, is to STRICTLY stick to doing what has worked and let your W come to you.
My #1 mistake was shifting from doing what was working to doing what I thought would make W happy... and I did this when she and I began to have frequent contact and began discussing the possibility of reconciliation.
Don't make the same mistake.
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
