To DB, or not to DB, that is the question.

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"At least S7 is benefiting from all this time alone with H."

This is a good thing, yes?

"Can't control H though so I'll just continue to make plans without him."

This is definitely a good thing.

With the exception of my W, I think men tend to be more "come here - go away" than women in these situations. Your H is definitely riding the rollercoaster so much I think he doesn't know what he wants from minute to minute.

Continue to be the rock; for yourself and your kids.