It hurts. But which situation is causing you more pain? And which one would continue to cause pain?
I know how you feel. I am there, also. Right now. As much as it hurts, it's not that "Will this ever end?" feeling. It's weight starting to lift off of you.
H 56 W 48 D27,S21 SS25 SS22 Severely autistic M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs. "I've never loved you" 3/7/2011 Separated 8/7/2011 BITS