Thanks for taking the time to post. i text h and asked how his mother was. He said she is stable. i told him to tell her" thx for all she did for us, and that we love her" when she gets in a regular room im going to send flowers and a card from son and i. i dont feel i am welcome to visit her. the last time we spoke 1 yr ago, we argued that she let ow live in her house.
