It's as Clear as Mud

[Jeannine]

I also turned to my own thread yesterday to post my thoughts on what had happened on CHL's thread, after finding it locked.
But guess what. Mine was locked up too!
Guess JJ did a sweep.

I was surprised that Ceb made reference to your post as one of the heavy-handed.
I thought that you were both helpful and tactful.

My take on what Ceb and Cal were saying in reference to the "fuzzy morals" issue is that, 'right or wrong', it's where CHL's head may be at, at this time - in that 'alien mode' we all know and love.

I think that Ceb and Cal were trying to give us a peek into the kind of convoluted thinking that WAS's manage as they wreck havok.

I'm wrestling with some feelings regarding Ceb's opening remarks to "the ladies" as well, (that naming and chastising thing).
But I'm trying to practice restraint and DB the situation.

I have a whole lot of choice words for my H for his past behavior - HIS CHEATING - and as much as I know that what he did was wrong, wrong, WRONG, I don't let loose my rath only because it would be anti-productive.

I know none of us want to push CHL away, and we all want to help Pam. So...