I got a call from H after the earthquake, he had heard the story on the radio. He was out of town and so did not experience the earthquake himself. After he called, I thought, "Well he didn't have to call me and ask about it, maybe he did it because he has concern for me after all." So when he got home Tuesday I looked forward to it being a way for him to bring up a conversation, we could make a little small talk about it and maybe the mood would lighten. Nope. He got home from his trip and said nothing that day and said nothing to me yesterday either. The earth can move yet Monster stays in control. Monster's stronger than I thought.