Sorry you've been sukced into a bad soap opera TM. I thought the email was pretty good, mostly business with a bit of compassion.

I've heard (at least in MLC cases) that the WAS has to hit bottom before any kind of R healing can begin. Your W looks like she's taking an express elevator down; maybe this will shake her up a bit.

Me 43 W 38
M 5 T 7
SD20
S15, S13 with 1st W
ILYBNILWY June 2010
Separation/Bomb July 2010
Divorce Feb 8, 2011