My faith gives me the courage to move forward

[25yearsmlc]

ps

there's nothing to ask your h (unless you still cannot face him).

If that's the case, then simply text to inform him of your intention to go,

and to make sure it's a good time, (as in, HIM NOT being there then), so as to "avoid tiring her out w/too many, and or to spread company out so she's not lonely", etc.

Do NOT bring up the m.

You are there to thank her for helping care for your son...and for being a good grandmother.

If she has something to say, don't argue. Listen to her. She's dying. Maybe She'll just want to be heard.