Thanks Denver, Gritter and Country.

Just ordered the DR book, so will give that a shot.

So I wait for her to initiate contact now re her stuff at the house??? Or do I still touch base as I told her??

M 35
W 31
Separated 2/2011 but still together
Ended it 4/2011
Together 8 yrs
Married 3.5 yrs
Lawyers involved 6/2011