I am sorry it's come to this Telemark. However, I think you behaved in line with your values and preserved your own self worth here. Not a small thing. You earned her respect if nothing else. Yes she's probably angry that she no longer has you on a string and the OM in her bed. Stinks to be her.
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.