SoccerWife,

Sometimes being between a rock and a hard place is a great opportunity for self growth.

These kinds of dilemmas are never fun, but when you make the choice to act from your integrity - well you will benefit no matter what. You become a more complete self - and yes, this might mean experiencing some serious pain. But at least its the right kind of pain.

Expect more of the same behavior from your H for the time being. If he doesn't just up and leave I would prepare for tantrums and whatnot. It isn't about you - it's him not getting things his way and trying to use anger and drama to regain some control.

I think you are on the right track - you have to take care of yourself and that means holding on to your integrity. Don't sell yourself out to someone else's drama. You've come too far. N'at. grin


M: 32
W: 29
T: 9 Years
M: 4 Years
I hit rock bottom: 2/11
PA admitted: 4/11
WAW: 5/11
D filed: 6/11
now: Patience, wisdom, and growth - hopefully.