OK thanks Denver....they are all good points and I guess I will try that then. I will read up on your sitch tonight. My only query is that the Coach kind of suggested that I bring this up, given how bad our last conversation was and she was blaming me for everything that's gone wrong. I agree its not natural, but knowing my W, I doubt she will bring the R up too many times again, she just blocks it out and doesn't want to talk about it with me or anyone else for that matter. It's her way of dealing with things....ignore it, pretend it's not there and run away.
Questions:
1) Has she filed for D - I see lawyers involved but no mention of D process
2) Is there a firm date as to when she is coming back to the States?
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce