Originally Posted By: Denver_2010
There is no question that I should be dropping the rope...


Dropping?

What does it take to drop a rope? Open your hand?

It is not the action of dropping the rope. It is the result of when it is dropped.

Originally Posted By: Denver_2010
my W has this nasty habit of drawing me back in every couple of weeks though.


Because you have not opened your hand yet.

She tugs.

And you get pulled.

Then.... BOY. Do you yank back.

I have to admit Denver. I see you putting little emphasis on half of this process. The YOU process.

So you no longer resist her tugs.

So you don't think about every word you use. Then regret half of them.

Work on the YOU side.

BITS

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