Gritter recently posted somewhere "you have found your place to dig."

To me...

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In a way I feel used especially when I found out the sister was going.


^^^ This is yours on this issue.

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I think you were being TRUE to yourself without regard to the outside world and the people in it.....including your W.


If this is true I completely agree.

Just dig though...

Peace brother.

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