Just a quick note about other people like friends, siblings, parents and even counselors.
I think that MWD does a good job of describing all those people's motivations behind what they do and say to a spouse that is cheating.
They listen and try to make the person happy because if they do that then they in turn feel good about themselves and they preserve the relationship.........it is really all about them.
It is a selfish thing that they do.
They will sacrifice their own beliefs because they "fear" that the wayward spouse will cut them off.........and your W has done just that with some of your friends already.
Let YOUR life be a Good Life and show all these people that you can thrive in the face of adversity.........nothing like a little external validation to pump you up!!!!!
Cheers
Formerly "missherlove"
Me49 XW49 M17 T19 S16 D20
Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
