Wow, lots of manly hugging going on here 2step....LOL.

I think the more important thing to look at here is YOU.

I think you were being TRUE to yourself without regard to the outside world and the people in it.....including your W.

This is important because it is part of what will be your salvation in all this crap.

While my W's affairs and my eventual D were the most painful things that have ever happened to me, I can truly say that I am a better person for it.

The bad parts got surgically removed and the good parts of me got better.........

Looks like the your good parts got better too.

Congrats

Cheers smile

Formerly "missherlove"

Me49 XW49
M17 T19
S16 D20

Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.

~Jim Morrison