WTF?!?! - Artpay Otway

[MHL]

I was very sad last night knowing that they were at the concert and I was not.

I miss both of them more than I can express in words.

I know this is painful right now, however it is a testiment to the Man you are Denver.....

These are the times that build character, resilience, strength........while I know you are suffering, I see you moving and changing.

You are looking at the people around you differently, things that you used to care about will start to fade in importance and you will start to value things that you did not even see before.

You do have TIME on your side........let it be your friend....when you are suffering don't look at the calendar, look at the second hand on the clock.......get to the next minute, the next hour, the next day.......it does work.

THIS IS huge for me. I was just complaining last night that THIS is not working. My fellow bits reminded me that I have given it less than a month. That I need to give it at least 1/2 of the amount of time that I gave my previous approach.

This is the "knowing" part of things......you will feel it later after the time has past.........don't hurry it, it will happen when the time is right.

Try to stay away from any timelines........they set yourself up for disappointment and I honestly believe they delay what it is that you are waiting for.

By the way..........the thing that you are waiting for.......

do you even know what it is?????

I do.

That is why I "do" Little Friday, to remind myself at least once a week.

I spend a lot of time talking with other bits. They have become some of my closest friends. We are traveling to meet over the labor day weekend.

Some of the best GALing you will ever do..........I speak from experience.

I still think you are doing good Denver.......

You are making steps on your journey..........the steps you are taking now are some of the biggest you will take on your journey.

Just as there are many steps behind you there are many more ahead........stop trying to look at the map.......Stop trying to figure out when you are going to get there.......look out the window.....enjoy the scenery.

Cheers