Thanks AJ. Yes, the no contact is working, but it is hard.

I wrote her a letter, but I'm not sure if I'll send it. I was planning on mailing it next Tuesday since it will be our 26th wedding anniversary. I probably won't. Thoughts?

Would like to hear from the vets on this one:

When they do decide that they want to come back or work on things, what happens? Do they just decide that they love us again all of a sudden?

Just curious.

Tad


Currently:
M 57 XW 58
Sons 39,34,32,30

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
XW marries OM 6/13