I did exactly as Laurie recommended, I sent H a reminder that I was willing to talk but that he needed to approach me before 10 pm so that we could both get sleep (I put the ball in his court). He is stomping around the house and talking under his breath again. It really doesn't matter what I do, he will be upset. There is no pleasing an irritable person.
Me: 32/ H: 32/ S13/ D5 T: 15/ M: 8 Rock bottom: 4/11 ILYB: 5/11, but I knew it at least a yr before Gaining acceptance: 8/11
You must be the change you wish to see. - Mahatma Gandhi