OK, so this is my script for the phone call:

Hi,
How have you been?
What have you been up to? (are these two questions chasing?)
You know how last time we spoke you expressed your hurts and disappointments with me and our marriage, well I have been thinking about that and I understand what I did made you hurt and I accept what you’re feeling is valid. I can see how you would have felt. And it’s really sad that things didn’t work out between us and I really regret what I did or didn’t do.
Anyway, I just wanted to say that.
So, next Saturday should be ok with me for you to come over. Let’s confirm during the week.
Have a good weekend.
Bye


Thoughts???


M 35
W 31
Separated 2/2011 but still together
Ended it 4/2011
Together 8 yrs
Married 3.5 yrs
Lawyers involved 6/2011