thatgirl, i have to apologize, its not your posting that needs to stop. its mine. i wrongly assumed that you needed to hear was what i needed. that was callous and inconsiderate. my situation is done, but you are in the midst of yours and need to be able to openly post your feelings without fear of a response like mine.
please keep posting and keep working. i do wish you find peace and a happy solution.
again, i am sorry.
"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".