AWwwww ((((((hugs)))))) we should be going out for margaritas!
Things may or may not come to a head now that the kids are gone. You may need to think strategically about what your goals are.
Do you WANT to know the truth about what he's up to? What will you do with that information? If you knew for sure he was having an affair, would it change your plans?
And let's assume, for a moment, that either you call it off or he calls it off now that the kids are out of the house. Are you financially prepared for that moment? If not, what should you be doing right now to make yourself be in a better financial place in case that happens?
