That being said, I'm not resolved to "get as much as I can and move on." There's still 2 months until mediation and while I don't plan on "doing" anything to change her, I'm not going to give up hope and stop fighting this thing spiritually until it is over.
No one is saying to give up and move on. It's about moving forward.
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how do you "show" your WW the "new" you?
They WILL notice IF:
The changes are real and have been CONSISTENT for an amount of TIME.
So don't worry about "showing" her.
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I get frustrated
Because you want from others. Think about this...
Just DO for yourself. Be proud of how YOU act through this difficult time. Don't let others actions/non-actions affect you.
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I know for a FACT if I knew my brother or best friend or father were cheating on their spouse, I just couldn't have anything to do with them on a social level because it's just NOT RIGHT
What if it was your wife?
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I would tell them my thoughts, tell em I love em and beyond that, wouldn't be able to participate.
Hmmm....
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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.
