Originally Posted By: Drew
Originally Posted By: Denver_2010
I have told W a number of times that I am so sorry that I didn't respect how she felt about these things

So stop telling her.

Originally Posted By: Denver_2010
That I would never do that to her again.

And WHEN SHE GIVES YOU THE CHANCE - show her.

Just show her.

If you tell her that you're showing her - you're back to square one.


I have tried Drew. There have been a couple of different times when I have had an opportunity to show her that I don't have a problem with her having a password of mine... for example with my phone when we were at disney land and she needed to use the navigation on my phone.

The problem is, she just doesn't seem to be getting it.

It's like she is trying to convince herself that I am still this horrible guy who could never change.


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce