My compliments, 2step. You took the high road. This person has been a major part of your life, and needed help, and you responded caringly. If such requests become a pattern, different story. For now, do unto others, I say. Makes you a better person.

H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012