Denver, I know i am still a newbie to all this. Here's just my own experience and 2c. I read here a lot about 'letting go the rope'. I knew what it meant. Did not know how to achieve it. But i guess somewhere in july, i started paying more attention to my life, my activities. Kept myself busy, hit the gym and felt good physically. Also ended up buying a motorcycle
I dunno, doing all this, i totally neglected the sitch my wife. Yup, i did keep a regular schedule with my daughter. But i really did not care too much about Wife.
Right now i see my wife trying to contact me, figure out what she wants in her life etc.
Not that this might lead to a reconciliation. But i know what i am worth. And thats a big thing.
Try to let go of that rope. Love and live your life. If your wife wants to be a part of it, she will make an effort. If not, know that you will always be okay.
BITS M 38 W 36 D 7 Married 15 yrs W left for 6 months in 2009 W Filed for D 01/03/11 piecing now...
