Thanks Mike!

Yea i need to have the confidence about myself. Otherwise i will risk myself emotionally.

Yea i did figure that she was testing me. In a way i guess i was upset because i guess at some level i still have not truly forgiven her.

That also tells me i too have ways to go for myself here.

BITS
M 38
W 36
D 7
Married 15 yrs
W left for 6 months in 2009
W Filed for D 01/03/11
piecing now...