So why is he so angry with me? Is it because I caught him everytime?
He is angry with you as a way to justify his actions. At least that is how I perceived it with my W.
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It's not your fault. This is his behavior.
Lila is spot on with this. In the beginning I like you tried to talk every chance I got but it was like talking to a brick wall and got me nowhere. I couldn't control my W or her actions and once I realized this it was like a huge weight was lifted off my shoulders. And that is when the real work started on myself.
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Take a break from him. Don't pursue. Let the dust settle. Address your panic (trauma) in counseling - with someone who understands this.
Great advice again. Take this time to focus on you and your D.
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I just want him to come to his senses and soon. He hasnt filed any papers yet. I am hoping that is a good sign.
Patience will become your biggest virtue. When our WA are in A's they are in such a fog that only they can bring themselves out of it and who know's if they ever will.
My W has been in a fog for well over 1.5 years and I don't know if she will ever come out of it. And I've gotten to the point that the chances are very slim that I'll be there for her if and when she does.
Keep your head up and take care of you and that D of yours.
There is a difference between knowing the path & walking the path. – Morpheus
