When life hands you lemons add alcohol and stir!

[kat727]

Have you asked him how he refers to you?? I would let him know that even if he isn't a words type of guy that you fill loved and would like to continue on this path of repairing your relationship. Well, that is if you feel that way.

I think you should also set aside maybe a half an hour each week or so to kind of get a reading on how you both feel how things are between you. What bothered you(not from the past but recently), what did you appreciate, what would you like more of. Have both of you respond and really listen. Think of ways to move this relationship out of the "it is what it is zone" to something you both want. I am guessing if he is asking you how you refer to him, he has been thinking about it a bit.

Big hugs, kat