You looked at yourself before acting. You realized that the reasons you didn't want to help were not loving. Not loving to your x or yourself. Maybe if you were like "giving her $ enables her to use me, or I'm doing this to get her back" but they weren't.
You're intentions and actions were loving for BOTH of you. IMHO - When you come from a truly loving place, you can't go wrong. Kudos!
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
