2step, I understand options 1-4 would have felt sooo much better, at least short term (I especially liked number 2) Glad you went with the one that would feel better in the long term. I think you played it perfectly.
Me 43 W 38 M 5 T 7 SD20 S15, S13 with 1st W ILYBNILWY June 2010 Separation/Bomb July 2010 Divorce Feb 8, 2011