The fact that you consider not posting anymore is somewhat discouraging considering you have helped so many, I am sure Denver would be sad to see you leave. As we post to others we help ourselves as others post to us they help us.
To each his own I suppose, I for one like the hard truth as is. I was not always ready to hear it, In the beginning I wanted encouragement, I needed it, I craved it. There is plenty of that. However at some point some of the “heavy hitters” started posting and started telling me the facts as they saw it.
A perfect example of that? 25MLC and my main woman Michellle LT.
Hope can be found anywhere for those who are desperate enough to find it or look for it, but a lot of people stay away from the blunt truth that is associated with so many of our sitch.
It is in looking at the hard facts that we begin to accept our reality.
Hope is hope and plenty are willing to give it and if that is what you seek I am sure there will be plenty of posters that would happy to accommodate that. God knows I needed it and thank god they delivered!
Although at one point I began to wonder if what I was receiving was a watered down version of reality.
Thatgirl, I do hope you stick around and offer some support, there are many who love your post.