The runners are living in survival and on adrenaline. The are not centered in themselves, sure of who they are or what they want.
And any animal living in survival mode will fight, take flight or freeze.
Our WAS have no central 'core'. Thus they always seek to fill that hole with something or someone, but it's always a temporary fix. So they lurch, from one fix to the next and the empty core remains, until they integrate all the facets of their personality into a stable whole. Until they truly grow up and mature they will continue to run. Growing is painful and they avoid it at all costs.
They don't really think then act. They react. There is a world of difference between the two.
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.