And what I'm finding out is that she has done that all of her life; just run away from anything that needs to be worked on.
That seems to describe my W. She has some family history in that to some extent as well. It almost like they truly believe it's easier to go through the pain of running away than to work through the pain they're in now. They fail to acknowledge there is a greater reward in working through the pain they're in now. I think many of us LBS'ers are in the same boat. It makes me wonder if some people are just "runners".
Flight or fight, I believe some people are just wired for flight, that they have bigger personal hurdles to overcome to be able to stay and fight.
It is not that you are not worth the effort; it is that they are not able to expend the effort. I think some realize what they are running from but cannot stop, justified by the vilification of the LBS.
It is when they can no longer justify their actions to themselves that second thoughts creep in.
Whether they act upon them or not has to be their decision, we need to act upon our decision to move forward and grow.
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill
