Wow - although I can't say I'm too surprised. When you accept that he's running away from his "old life" and the kids are part of his old life, well. It's awful, but consistent with his behaviour.
In fact, choosing to see S7 often is *not* consistent with the selfish behaviour I've seen from H. However, given that the schedule was basically drafted by me, and he wants a 3day/4day split, which *is* consistent with his "me me me!" behaviour, it makes sense.
H: 39, Me: 37 SD: 18, S: 7 M: 9, T: 10 "I love you but am not in love with you" - 5/11 Discovered online affair - 7/11