When my son went to visit his father a few weeks back, he wound up very sick with tonsilitis and strep which turned into mono.
Anyway, my xh did not call to tell me. As son is over 18, he neednt, but, it would have been nice to let me know.
Never said anything about it to him no need to. Wouldnt get me anywhere and I dont go down those roads any longer.
Anyway, my son had an incident with a light bulb (long story) and required some stitches.
So. I thought about letting xh know. And I acted the way I would have wanted to be treated and send him a quick text.
Me: Just thought would want to know, son needed stitches last night.
He texted me about the details and then I said, ok, take care. He then writes, B, thank you so much for letting me know. I relaly appreicate it. No prob, I wrote. Good night.
I did the right thing and thought I had gotten away. But, as always, he had to keep going.
He: I guess I should have let you know when son was so sick.
Me: Ok
He: I will next time, I promise.
Me: Ok
He: I guess my promises arent worth much.
Me: ya think?
He: Yeah, probably not. Well, I will try to let you know, ok?
Me: ok
He: You keep doing the right thing, I keep messing up. Why is that?
Me: I dont know. mahybe because you suck and I dont? LOL!
He: That was a joke, right?
I had a headache so I didnt bang my head. Just kept sticking the needle in my eye. LOL!
