Don't let your husband's actions define you AT ALL. He is being inappropriate to say the least.
I mean seriously, slamming doors and muttering under his breath?
Where did he learn to behave this way?
I'm going to put a guess out there: As you said, your husband is trying to make you cooperate with whatever he feels his grand plan is. The thing is, its obvious that he doesn't want to handle any of the repercussions of it for himself. So the idea (and I remember doing this, when I was in my late teens..) is to make the situation miserable enough that you decide you want a divorce too. Then he can't be the one responsible. Saves his ego a lot.
Yinz gotta keep on keepin on either way.
It sounds like you are on a down swing, emotionally. It is good that you are talking with your DB coach today - I'm sure that will be helpful.
M: 32 W: 29 T: 9 Years M: 4 Years I hit rock bottom: 2/11 PA admitted: 4/11 WAW: 5/11 D filed: 6/11 now: Patience, wisdom, and growth - hopefully.
