Thanks LITB, JS, Valeska. Yup i can see things clearer now. I guess the worry now is "Do i really wanna go back into those waters again???". I am ready to jump right in whenever i see my daughter. I want her to grow up happy with both parents. But when i see my W and her old habits, that enthusiasm fades.

I guess this is where the LBS has to let the WAS make their own journey.

I guess the fact that i am turning 35 next week is also contributing to my regress a bit.


BITS
M 38
W 36
D 7
Married 15 yrs
W left for 6 months in 2009
W Filed for D 01/03/11
piecing now...