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I know that at this point that I'm supposed to be able to talk to him about the crap that runs through my head at times like this, but...spare me...I don't want to talk about my hurt and vulnerable feelings and have to see him put on his "martyr face" and roll his eyes.


I do NOT discuss "the crap" with my H at all.
Too much risk involved.
However, should the opportunity present itself in a safe and friendly manner, I might try for a quick in...grab the goods...and dash out kind of a thing.
Ms.Chicken Little here.
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It will be years of healing though--and I still need support from all of you.



I'm right there with ya, Tal.


Jeannine